The days that vibrators are made exclusively for women are over, and a new age of male vibrators started a while ago. That being said, the term “male vibrator” often confuses people. In this article, I’m going to help you get clarity on what male vibrators are and then help you find the best male vibrator for you!
Without further ado, let’s get started!
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What is a male vibrator?
A male vibrator is exactly what it says on the tin; it’s a vibrator for men! The main issue people have with this is clear though… Women’s vibrators come in various shapes and sizes and have different names. There are rabbit vibes, clitoral vibrators, bullet vibrators, vibrating dildos and everything in between.
So, where does that leave us men then?
Well, we get two main categories really. We get anal vibrators and, with lack of a better word, penis vibrators (male masturbators is the more-common term). Sure, there are different kinds for each, but this is the selection we’re working with. I’ll cover each of these below.
Male anal vibrators
Male anal vibrators are inserted into the anus in order to provide stimulation to the prostate. It has been named by some experts to be the male version of the G-spot, while large numbers of testimonials indicate the sensation is out of this world (more here).
Male anal vibrators come in many different shapes and sizes, but there are a few common traits which make them the perfect contender for P-spot stimulation. First is the curved shaft. This carved shaft helps to reach the sometimes hard to reach P-spot. Vibration options and added texture further helps to stimulate this male organ.
This list has four different male anal vibrators that consistently outperform their competitors.
Male masturbators are one of the best-known forms of male sex toys. These come in the form of pocket pussies and fleshlights, but there are also many vibrating models that add some more variation into the mix.
Unlike the male anal vibrators, the penis vibrators are mostly more suitable for solo-play than to share with a partner. They are great for stamina training though, and after a few long training sessions, you can be sure that your partner will be indirectly enjoying the toy with you!
On this list, I’ve included four of the best penis-focused male vibrators too. This ensures there are entries for both preferences!
The best penis-focused male vibrators
The first one is one that featured in our post on the best male sex toys too. Variation is key for this toy, and its main selling point is the large number of uses it counts. Unlike the other penis-focused models on this list, this is one that can be used together with your partner while adding to their sensations as well as your own.
Some of the features that this model includes are six different vibration modes and six speed variations. This ensures you can’t get bored with the toy easily. It’s also waterproof and made from high-quality materials which ensures you’ve got a toy for life when you buy it.
Another great feature is the long battery life which makes it perfect for long nights of romance or self-pleasuring.
As you’ve probably read in the post on the best sex toys for men, I adore this model. It’s featured in most lists out there and it’s very dynamic in use. The only thing that may cause some people to lose interest is the price. Don’t get me wrong, it’s worth every penny in my eyes, however, I can understand that it may be a little expensive for some.
Overall it’s a great male vibrator that’s versatile in its uses, from solo-play to shared experiences. A great list-entry!
- Great for solo play as well as with a partner
- Unprecedented battery life makes it great for long sessions
- Unique compared to others on this list
- The price can be too steep for some
This is the first more-traditional male vibrator on this list, and it comes with some fantastic unique features. This one also featured on our list of the best sex toys for men, so make sure to check that post out for the full scoop. I’ll just cover it briefly again here!
The main unique feature that this male vibrator has is the suction-effect it offers. This is a form of stimulation not offered by any other sex toys that I know of. As well as this it boasts powerful vibrations and a textured interior sleeve which applies even more sensation to your little friend down there.
I’ve been the proud owner of this toy for over a year now and don’t have much bad to say about it. It is very stimulating, that’s for sure. The only thing that it’s missing compared to say, the Fleshlight launch, is that it doesn’t sync with other stimulation devices. The ability to sync with VR and to use it handsfree are what make the Fleshlight what it is. If you’re after strong stimulation though, the fleshlight falls slightly short of this model.
- Great unique features like a suction -effect, strong vibrations and a textured interior
- Extremely stimulating
- Doesn’t sync to VR and can’t be used hands-free
The Kiiroo Titan is a great alternative to the Fleshlight Launch which features next on this list. It’s smaller and more light-weight which provides its users with a much lower barrier to entry. This, coupled with the sleek design, also makes this toy great for keeping tucked away. When you want a stealthy male vibrator, this is the one on this list for you.
That being said, it does fall slightly short on a few categories. The most important one being sensation, and it doesn’t quite live up to the expectations set by the Tenga or Fleshlight on this list. It’s still a strong vibrator, but the complete package offered by the Fleshlight and the unique features of the Tenga are slightly more advanced in my opinion.
One of the best parts for me on this device is the fact that you can easily access the inside. If I were to rate categories, this is the one where the Kiiroo Titan would blow the others away.
The side of the toy opens up to allow you to easily remove the textured sleeve, and this also makes cleaning a whole lot easier.
As well as these features, it can sync to VR and 3D adult movies in order to provide a more well-rounded experience. Side note: Watching VR porn while using this toy is a crazy experience. Definitely worth a try!)
All in all, this toy is good at what it does. Even though it (only just) falls short of the others when it comes to the sensations it delivers, it’s extremely dynamic and ticks pretty much all the boxes that a male vibrator should tick.
- Very high usability standards that far surpass the others on this list
- Great for storing in secrecy
- A feature-rich male vibrator that can sync to VR and 3D movies too
- Not quite as stimulating as the others
The last of the penis-focused male vibrators on this list is the already-mentioned Fleshlight Launch. This is another model that’s prominent on our blog and one that is just as common on other lists found online. It truly is one of the most stimulating and best male vibrators on the market currently.
The Fleshlight Launch can be used with most Fleshlight sleeves and products which already makes it very dynamic. This variation offered is increased by way of different vibration settings and the possibility to sync with VR and 3D movies.
On top of this, it can be used hands-free which makes the whole syncing with VR even more fun. I know I mentioned you’ve got to try watching VR-porn with the Kiiroo, but wait till you try it with the Fleshlight Launch!
I haven’t even spoken about the thrusting speed of 180 strokes per minute. Try asking a partner to bounce up and down that fast!
Since I’ve got a sex toy blog it’s sort of my job to own a lot of sex toys. It’s not advisable to get all of these just like me though, as I have trouble deciding which one to use regularly… The Fleshlight launch is one I reach for often, but there are some drawbacks too.
One of the major drawbacks is that it’s bulky. Very bulky. The sheer size of this toy means that even though it is so great at what it does, I often go for an easier smaller toy.
Overall, this one is great if you want a feature-rich male vibrator that can be used handsfree. If you want something easy to store, take with you on the go or something that’s light and nimble, this is not the one for you!
- Strong stimulation consisting of strong vibrations and up to 180 strokes per minute
- Can sync with VR-porn. Coupled with the hands-free functionality, this is a real winner.
- A Fleshlight product… Not much more to be said here!
- Bulky which makes it difficult to store and slow to use
Anal male vibrators
Important: When inserting anything into your backside, there are a few important things you need to do and be aware of:
- Always use plenty of lube
- Warm up the area slightly before use, and build up the size slowly (use fingers if needed first)
- Only ever insert items with a flared base (you don’t want to get anything stuck up there… That’s not a conversation you want to have with your doctor, trust me!)
- Make sure the item is non-porous or has a condom over it
I know it’s boring, but you’ll thank me later!
Read more about anal safety in this post by Adult Toy Megastore.
The first of the male vibrators that focuses on P-spot stimulation, the Lelo Hugo is one that features on most lists of the best male sex toys. Lelo is known for making extremely high-quality sex toys which far exceed expectations.
If I had to choose just one of the male vibrators on this list for hitting the P-spot, this would be the one. Its small size makes it perfect for taking with you anywhere, as well as great for storing around the house without people finding it. The features it comes with are also very versatile.
For example, it comes with a remote control that makes it possible for your partner to take control. This also allows you to use the toy hands-free which beats reaching around all the time when you want to change something. It’s also waterproof making it easy to clean and even more dynamic in the kinds of places it can be used.
As with all backdoor-focused male vibrators, it takes a little getting used to, and an open mind try. That being said, it’s one of the greats and certainly deserves a spot on this list.
- Hits the P-spot directly for powerful orgasms
- Remotely controlled which allows you and your partner to use it without interacting with the toy itself
- Very high quality
- It’s a little shorter than some of the other male vibrators on here which can make it harder to reach the prostate
The Lovense hush is another popular anal vibrator for men. This one is controlled remotely by way of an app which gives it worldwide range! This makes it an ideal toy for long-distance relationships to enjoy together. It’s a toy that can be used by either women or men, so you can even both get one and play with each other.
This toy is the most technologically advanced one on this list, and if you want variation it’s the highest-ranking one too. The application allows you to use it handsfree but also gives the user full control over the vibration. It has unlimited vibration settings (within reason of course. Not countable, that’s for sure!) which is one of the things that makes it unique.
The only downside I’ve personally experienced with this product is that it’s a little short. It’s more of a butt plug than a prostate massager. This isn’t an issue if that’s what you’re after, it just makes it less well-equipped for those P-spot orgasms that are so high in demand.
All-in-all, this is a great toy if you want something with long battery life and a lot of variation. If you’re after that elusive P-spot stimulation though, it’s not the best one on this list.
- An extreme level of variation. There are unlimited vibration patterns for you to enjoy
- Can be controlled remotely from all around the world
- High-quality and waterproof for easy cleaning
- Not ideal for stimulating the prostate, especially in larger guys
The second Lelo product on this list, and another hard-hitting powerhouse, the Lelo Loki Wave is the perfect prostate massager with some unique features. The main unique feature that this model offers is the thrusting “come here” motion it offers. This makes sure your P-spot is stimulated in an effective manner, and this is something I can personally vouch for.
Whenever I’m ready to chase the P-spot orgasm, this is the model I use. It wouldn’t be the one I go with if I just had to go with one though, as the Lelo Hugo wins that based on size and features.
This Lelo product does one thing really well, and that stimulates your prostate. It also has another smaller shaft which is more like a butt-plug, but as far as I’m concerned they might as well have removed it for easier insertion. If you want something smaller, the Lovense Hush and Lelo Hugo already tick those boxes. Want your prostate tickled, then this is the right model for you.
- Unique stimulation in the form of a rocking “come here motion”
- Hits the prostate perfectly and with a lot of stimulation
- High-quality product
- Less easy to take with you when travelling, also less easy for storing
Last but not least is the Fun Factory Stronic. This model is used for G-spot stimulation a lot too, but that doesn’t make it any less effective for hitting that P-spot. It’s feature-rich and has many different vibration setting you can enjoy.
I personally like to use this one together with a partner, where the long shaft really comes into play. This is the longest toy on this list which means it’s the most suitable to taller or larger men where the prostate may be a little harder to reach than for smaller people.
If you want a stealthy model, this is great. Let me clarify quickly, the size and shape do not make it ideal for storage. It really comes into its own when it comes to vibration sound though, where even on the hardest vibration settings it cannot be heard in the next room.
This one is for the taller guys, people who want to fill up a little more, or people who value discretion when it comes to noise. A great alternative to the Loki Wave if you’d prefer this model.
- Long shaft makes it great for taller and bigger guys
- Whisper-quiet vibrations are strong but not loud
- Probably the least discreet when it comes to esthetics
Male vibrators are great toys to have. While some go for the vibrators focused on the stimulation of the penis, others prefer prostate stimulation or even both. There are many different kinds of vibrators in each category, each with its own distinct advantages and disadvantages. After reading this article you should be able to distinguish between the different models and find the right one for you!